Monday, 27 October 2014

NLP Presuppositions 2. Every behavior has its appropriate context



2. Every behavior has its appropriate context

You may get angry in sporadic outbursts because it gives you the space you need from people. You may be a passive person because of its benefits such as the praise you receive from parents. You may be scared of snakes because when you were little a snake-bite hospitalized you for two days.
Unfortunately, the behaviors, phobias, and ways to communicate you learned from experience that served you well then limit your potential now. You let the past dictate your future. Instead of using old ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving that served their purpose in old contexts, you need to adapt new thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are most beneficial for the present moment and aligned with who you want to become.
Another way of saying it is that every behaviour has a purpose, get curious about that purpose.

More presuppositions to follow....
Credit to Joshua Uebergang aka "Tower of Power"
http://www.towerofpower.com.au/nlp-presuppositions

No comments:

Post a Comment