When Do Women Want Attention?

When do women want attention? - ALL THE TIME!!!

This is one of the first things that Tony Robbins teaches in his relationship mastery courses.

It's one of the simplest things you guys can do for your relationship, give her your attention. When? All the time!

She needs attention, if she doesn't get it from you, then she's going to get it from somewhere. And where would you rather she gets it from?

Listen to her, without interrupting, without jumping in with a solution. She wants to feel understood, so if you don't understand her (and lets face it, no matter how much of a human behavior expert you become, as a male, you will never fully understand your partner all the time!) just pretend that you do. If you want to offer her a solution, check with her to see if that's what she wants first. Sometimes she really is asking you for your logical problem solving skills, and when she does, you better man up and give it to her. It's just tricky knowing the right time to offer your solutions.

Pay her compliments, don't just say she's pretty or beautiful, comment on her accessories, her dress, her shoes, her hair, her jewelry, etc. Unlike us blokes, women actually spend a lot of time thinking about what to wear, so she will appreciate it when you acknowledge her.

Compliment her on her culinary skills, and offer to clean up, or collect the plates, do something, don't just be a lazy slob and treat your woman like a slave. It's not the 1950's any more. Participate in the household activities. It won't strip you of your masculinity, but it might just help with your relationship.

Take the trash out. That's your job.

Greet her at the door, kiss her, ask her about her day, ask if she want's anything to drink etc. Make her feel like she's the most important person in your life. Because she is.

Plan ahead. Weekend activities, holidays, etc. Give her something to look forward to. Remember she needs variety to be happy. Remember when you first started dating? What were you doing then that you're not doing now?

When I was looking for a suitable image to add to the post, I found a lot of "Girls want attention, Women want respect". With all due respect - Rubbish! Everyone deserves respect. Give your woman ATTENTION!

I was once invited to an opening day at a small business, I knew that the owners were going through a divorce, and it was awkward because everyone knew that the wife was just there to keep an eye on her financial investment. She was sat alone in a corner, not looking very happy. I could immediately see that she had gotten her hair done just for the occasion, so I went to say hello and commented how nice her hair looked. She lit up like someone flipped a switch.

With Valentines Day just around the corner, give her some attention.

To your success,
Trevor Long