10 Steps to Successful Goal Setting - Part 4 - Purpose

10 Steps to Successful Goal Setting - Part 4

Your life's PURPOSE

The best things in life are not things.

Take a few moments now and jot down the answers to the following questions:

What do you love to do so much, that you would pay to do it?
What do you really feel passionate about?
What would you choose to do if you had unlimited financial wealth?
What are the people or characters from history who you most admire, and why?
If you could achieve anything that you wanted in this lifetime, what would it be?

I once heard of a guy who was waiting to win the lotto so he could go fishing. Hello?!!!! You don't need a million dollars to go fishing! This guy ended up moving to an island, buying a boat, and taking people on fishing tours, and I imagine, living happily ever after pursuing his life's purpose of fishing, and making other people happy in the process.

Don't worry if you don't have a grandiose vision.

You don't have to change the world.

Being a good citizen is also a good life's purpose, or a good mother, father, friend, husband, wife, carer, community leader, etc.

Maybe a bigger vision will come, maybe it won't.

As long as you are living on purpose, living your values, that's success, that's happiness.

To your success,
Trevor Long

Gratitude is the Key to Your Growth and Fulfillment

If you count your blessings and are grateful for what happens to you, you will experience more blessings to be grateful for. 

This is a simple principle, yet it has the power to change your life.

There are universal principles that govern all things including our lives. If you were to give someone a gift, and they just looked at it and then tossed it aside without thanks, would you be inclined to give them another? Of course not. Well the universe bestows its gifts where they are most appreciated. If you are not grateful for what you have been given, why would the universe want to give you more?

Many people confuse gratitude with elation. They think that when they're elated about some event and go: "Oh, I'm so thankful for that!" that they are being grateful. But true gratitude actually has little to do with those temporary moments of happiness or elation.

Here are 5 tips on how to show gratitude

1. Say 'Thank you'. There is no limit to how many times you can thank a person, including yourself, and while it may only be two simple words, their meaning is universal and their effects can be profound.
2. Write thank you notes. Sometimes our best thoughts and ideas are those we do not try to edit, so let the message you write come to you in the moment. There is no need for the words to make sense to anyone but the person it is intended for.
3. Treat yourself. The greatest relationship we will ever have is with ourselves and it is wise to take the time to show ourselves that we are grateful for who we are.
4. Smile. A smile can be contagious if it comes from the heart and often tells a person so much more than words can say. Giving the gift of a smile can be a great way to show you are grateful.
5. Give a gift that counts. The power of a gift is ultimately the thought that goes into it. Take the time to really look at who the gift is intended for and what they value most in life. Everyone wants to be loved and appreciated for who they are. If you give a gift that that really speaks to their values - it's likely to be remembered forever.

- Dr John Demartini