Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts

Sunday, 7 December 2014

NLP Presuppositions – 11. The mind and body are inseparable





Neuro-Linguistic Programming Presuppositions – 

11. The mind and body are inseparable

It was previously believed the mind and body are separate entities. Today, researchers, medical experts, and philosophers discover evidence each day about the mind and body influencing one another. Your thoughts and emotions affect your body and vice versa. 
It’s clear how the mind-and-body affect each other: Prolonged stress or heavy emotional spells often result in physical sickness. Likewise, positive attitudes, joy and laughter are not only healing for the body, but also help prevent sickness.
Mind and body interact and mutually influence each other. It is not possible to make a change in one without the other being affected. When we think differently, our bodies change. When we act differently we change our thoughts and feelings.
Psychology creates Physiology and vice versa. Prove it to yourself. Sit slumped in your chair and try and think happy thoughts. You can't do it. Stand in a 'wiiners' posture, try and think depressing thoughts. You can't do it. 
One more presupposition to follow in this series. Stay tuned.

Thursday, 4 December 2014

NLP Presuppositions – 8. You cannot not communicate



Neuro-Linguistic Programming Presuppositions – 8. You cannot not communicate

I have come across many people who think it is possible to not communicate. The idea that you cannot communicate is one of the top communication myths.
You always communicate and will always continue to communicate. Your nonverbal communication illustrates the thoughts and feelings inside of you. While your thoughts remain hidden, a snicker in your smile, a wink in your eye, or a sigh of relief communicates a message without you needing to verbalize a message.
Thought provoking question - What is it that your think you are not communicating, but really are?
More presuppositions to follow....
Credit to Joshua Uebergang aka "Tower of Power"
http://www.towerofpower.com.au/nlp-presuppositions

Tuesday, 2 December 2014

NLP Presuppositions – 7. A positive intention exists beneath every behavior

Neuro-Linguistic Programming Presuppositions – 7. A positive intention exists beneath every behavior

You might yell to be heard. Fight to establish justice. Smoke to feel relaxation. Retreat to feel comfortable. Remain in bed to avoid the pain that awaits you. These are all positive intentions.
A positive intention does not mean the behavior is correct, healthy, or the best option. Rather, knowing a positive intention or fundamental human need exists behind behaviors and communication enables you to resourcefully act. When you see positive intentions, you are more able to separate the problem from the person and update your map.

Monday, 1 December 2014

NLP Presuppositions – 6. Change what is not working



Neuro-Linguistic Programming Presuppositions – 6. Change what is not working


The old saying, “If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got” is so true. This presupposition encourages people to stop doing what is ineffective. If you want something new, start doing something new.
It is sick to see parents use unhealthy ways of disciplining their children. Every action by the child gets a consequence placed around it. To the parent’s disbelief, the child continues to push those consequences. The parent thinks it’s the child’s problem, but the parent is too ignorant and stuck in habitual behavior to realize that what he or she does is not working.

More presuppositions to follow....
Credit to Joshua Uebergang aka "Tower of Power"
http://www.towerofpower.com.au/nlp-presuppositions

Saturday, 22 November 2014

NLP Presuppositions – 5. If one person can do something, anyone can learn to do it



Neuro-Linguistic Programming Presuppositions – 5. If one person can do something, anyone can learn to do it


This presupposition is modeling, doing what someone else does. It forms the foundation of NLP where individuals observe successful persons then mimic what makes them successful. Someone who wants similar success to a person they admire are to learn and do what makes the person successful, which leads to their own success. Successful individuals for centuries have modeled successful predecessors.
One of my favorites, a simple belief that takes away the "I'll never be able to do that" syndrome.
More presuppositions to follow....
Credit to Joshua Uebergang aka "Tower of Power"
http://www.towerofpower.com.au/nlp-presuppositions

Friday, 31 October 2014

NLP Presuppositions – 4. Experience has a structure





Neuro-Linguistic Programming Presuppositions – 4. Experience has a structure

Sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell create an experience for you. These five senses hold the potential to change your identity and reality. Each habit or skill is birthed from the five senses.
Pleasant-filled and pain-ridden experiences each have a structure that use the five senses. Recurrent painful memories typically are large, bright, and up close. Painless memories of previously painful moments are typically seen in black-and-white, a single frame, and at an objective distance like in a photo – or even possibly combined with humorous music. Knowing the experience you want and understanding the structures that gives the experience, helps you establish an empowering pattern.
More presuppositions to follow....
Credit to Joshua Uebergang aka "Tower of Power"
http://www.towerofpower.com.au/nlp-presuppositions

Thursday, 30 October 2014

NLP Presupposion 3 - People already have their needed resources

Neuro-Linguistic Programming Presuppositions – 3. People already have their needed resources




This is the weakest of the presuppositions. It is has been reinterpreted and misused from its original intention given by Milton Erikson when he said patients in therapy have the resources to handle their present problems, not all problems.
Unfortunately, and fortunately, you are human. While you may have the resources to solve personal problems, it does not mean you are capable of solving them right now. You need to know the resources you have and how to use them. You need to learn the skills, go through the experiences, discover a book, or whatever it may be, to awaken these resources within you.
You already have the ability to visualize, feel, hear sounds, communicate, and experience other sensations. These innate human abilities are the framework for personal change. In this article, and anything I share with you, I hope to give you the ability to use your resources better to create the reality you want in your everyday awakening life by showing you how to put your frameworks to more effective use.
More presuppositions to follow....
Credit to Joshua Uebergang aka "Tower of Power"
http://www.towerofpower.com.au/nlp-presuppositions

Monday, 27 October 2014

NLP Presuppositions 2. Every behavior has its appropriate context



2. Every behavior has its appropriate context

You may get angry in sporadic outbursts because it gives you the space you need from people. You may be a passive person because of its benefits such as the praise you receive from parents. You may be scared of snakes because when you were little a snake-bite hospitalized you for two days.
Unfortunately, the behaviors, phobias, and ways to communicate you learned from experience that served you well then limit your potential now. You let the past dictate your future. Instead of using old ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving that served their purpose in old contexts, you need to adapt new thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are most beneficial for the present moment and aligned with who you want to become.
Another way of saying it is that every behaviour has a purpose, get curious about that purpose.

More presuppositions to follow....
Credit to Joshua Uebergang aka "Tower of Power"
http://www.towerofpower.com.au/nlp-presuppositions

NLP Presuppositions – 12 Rules to Change Your Reality

Neuro-Linguistic Programming Presuppositions – 12 Rules to Change Your Reality


Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) looks at how an individual’s thoughts, feelings, and actions produce the results they get right now. NLP is used for peak performance, overcoming phobias, and building unstoppable confidence to name a few of its endless applications. The technology can change how you live every second because it is based on the mental software that runs your brain.
NLP practitioners have a set of rules known as “NLP presuppositions” that form the foundations for the technology. They are beliefs that govern NLP. The presuppositions give you the foundation to understand how you perceive the world and presents you with the opportunity to change your reality. It is not that the presuppositions have been proven, but rather they give us opportunities and freedom to produce for effective living and better communication.
In other words, we don't know for sure whether they are true, but if we choose to believe they are true, then you really can change your reality.
While few people agree on exact NLP presuppositions, the following presuppositions are ones I frequently stumble upon. They appear to be widely accepted. Though the presuppositions are simple, and hence can appear idealistic, think of how they can be applied to your life to change your reality:

1. The map is not the territory

This could be the most important presupposition to understand. “The map is not the territory” means we are separate from reality. The menu is not the food. The road map is not the city. The map of the world we have in our minds is not the real world.
We short-change ourselves of our full potential when we believe our mental map of the world is the territory we deal with everyday. If you take your assumptions of people’s behaviors, your position in the world, how people perceive you, or anything as reality – when it is merely your mental map painted from abstract understandings – you cheat yourself from what you can become.
Instead of interacting with the world, you interact with your map. How you treat people and yourself is dependent on the map you hold. Your map can be more quickly and easily changed than the world it attempts to describe.
How do you change your map? Get curious about your own map, and the maps of others. You might believe vanilla ice cream is the best , someone else might like chocolate ice cream, both are possible, both exist simultaneously, both are not wrong. Get curious about why your reality is different to theirs, and vice versa, and you will have a bigger map to interact with.

More presuppositions to follow....
Credit to Joshua Uebergang aka "Tower of Power"
http://www.towerofpower.com.au/nlp-presuppositions

Saturday, 25 October 2014

How To Use The Ultimate Success Formula (made famous by Tony Robbins)



What do you think is the best way to make sure you achieve your goals?


  1. Know your OUTCOME.
  2. Take massive ACTION.
  3. Notice the RESULTS you are getting.
  4. Have the flexibility to CHANGE what you are doing.
  5. Always operate from a PSYCHOLOGY and PHYSIOLOGY of excellence!